Self-loathing kills more than confidence: Tips to reprogram thinking & supercharge your purpose

Audio version. Watch video at https://youtu.be/UFkG4MWxAxc. Last episode we wrapped up a mini series on free thinking and using spiritual insights to calm doubt and fear. Today we’re moving into a new direction to dissect the destructive nature of self-loathing. The longer we stay stuck in a self-hate cycle, the more it crushes our self-esteem and confidence. Self-loathing also rewrites our purpose lifeline, leading our life down the wrong path entirely. Self-hate affects many areas of our lives.

• Mental health factors in
• Deeply rooted cycles factor in
  • Childhood or prior experiences
  • Trauma
  • The comparison trap and societal influences
  • Perfectionism
  • Negative self-talk and the views that feed into this

In this episode, I want to drill deeper into this last one. In today’s episode, you’ll

• Get insights into how self-loathing kills more than our confidence
• Hear about my own trials, errors, and breakthroughs with self-hate
• Learn some tips to reprogram your thinking on the self-love versus hate lifestyle.

Several years ago, I was trapped in a vicious self-hate, self-love cycle and there were days it sucked all the life from me. I was going through one of the worst AND promising seasons of my life concurrently and the culture clash had me on an emotional roller coaster. Ever feel this way? I learned A LOT of life lessons during that season, some of which I want to share with you today. I hope you’re encouraged with renewed insights and tips to apply to your own life that enhance your self-love walk and, in doing so, you gain better clarity on your purpose.  

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I put together this Restore Your Inner Warrior^® series with power-packed tools that will help you strengthen your inner warrior and overcome the things holding you back from living your best life. If you’re ready to boldly step into a life with improved clarity, self-esteem, and confidence, turn off those distractions running in the background, so you can supercharge your inner healing journey with this next episode. And welcome back to all my listeners already walking with me down this restoration path.

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